With two college girls living with us, along with a son who is living at home and is a college student, our household has become more "active." There are people coming and going; more people showing up for dinner and I love every moment of it! It's brought life to this old house one could say. But - and you knew there had to be a but -- I have become quite disorganized. The girls moved in when I was in the midst of dealing with anxiety and getting back on Paxil so at the time I just maintained and did what I could. Now it is time to figure out a new schedule, pull out the calendar and get to work.
These girls moving in has been the best thing that has happened to our family in a very long time. I love how they fit into our home life and what they have added to it. I love how we have girl chats at the dining room table when they come home from classes and I love the friends they have over.
I have been cooking up a storm and I have been using up the food from the freezer and the pantry. It knew it would be a ministry to meet the needs of college students and their friends but I never realized how much I would get out of it myself.
My new schedule began 2 weeks ago when they moved in but I haven't had a moment to be able to sit down and make up menus and a new housekeeping schedule. I can only "play things by ear" for so long and then I find myself forgetting to do things.
Being disorganized costs money and I have addressed that before. The other problem with being disorganized is that it means wasted time. I hate when I am constantly trying to find my keys or trying to find a book or you name it, trying to find something that I need right now but can't place my hands on it. Fortunately I cleaned and organized the house from top to bottom before the girls moved in and because of this I have been able to spot clean here and there which has been helpful and I haven't spent too much time searching for things. BUT --- it won't magically stay this way.
My goal with getting organized is not to have a perfect household, but my goal is to get organized and on a good cleaning schedule so that I have more time to do the things that I want to do such as being available when someone wants to talk with me.
Would love to see your schedule,and how you will work "free time" for chatting with the girls or doing a craft or project, this is my biggest problem.
ReplyDeleteThanks:)